Children are not good at communication, is the ability to live is not strong, mental health is not enough performance

Children should have the ability of communication. Normal interpersonal communication is a kind of beneficial social activity and also an activity conducive to the healthy growth of children's psychology. With the increasing development of modern life, people need to cooperate closely with each other and work together. In particular, modern people living in a highly developed environment of science and technology want to make a difference, Must have certain communicative ability, good at cooperation with people, and rely on the trust and friendship between people to get help.

The ability to cooperate with others has become one of the important qualities of modern people. Your child is not good at communication and gregarious. Even when guests come to the house, he will only hide in his own room. He doesn't know what to do. In a sense, it is a kind of performance of poor living ability and mental health.

As parents, we should not neglect the cultivation of children's interpersonal skills just because their children are obedient and obedient. To enable children to have certain interpersonal skills, parents should first create a good family interpersonal relationship, so that children can understand the specific principles of life from the actual experience of family life, and then they can apply them to the social interpersonal relationship. If your child belongs to this type, then you should pay more attention to observe and understand all aspects of the child's abilities and interests, often care about the child, can also take the child to participate in some social activities, to create some good communication conditions for the child, can encourage the child to participate in partners, and increase their ability in communication.

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What should parents do?

Children should be encouraged to make friends on the principle of equality

In the process of making friends, children should be taught to trust and cherish their friends. They should not easily doubt, resent and be hostile to others. They should not bully the weak for no reason. Fourth, cultivate children's sentiment of caring for others and helping others. No matter in school or at home, let children try to care about others, and learn to appreciate the fun. Fifth, cultivate children to be a person that everyone can trust. The mutual cooperation between people is the result of mutual trust, and to make others trust, we must first strive to be a person who can be trusted by others. Parents can teach their children to be considerate of others, keep their word and honor what they have said.

In this way, the child's introversion, poor cooperation ability, can gradually change, and then be able to work well with people. In order to cultivate children's character of fearing strangers, being generous and friendly in dealing with others, we can adopt the method adopted by a parent named Liu Shuling: when the guests come to the house, let the children open the door, say hello to the guests and say "please come in". After entering the room, he gives up his seat, pours tea, and asks the children to take the initiative to talk with the guests. At first, he can say one or two sentences. Gradually, he asks for rich content, humorous and funny language. If the parents' guests have something important to discuss with the parents, when the children are not convenient, the children should withdraw, say "excuse me" when they leave, and when the guests want to leave, Children should be sent out of the gate with their parents. After the event, insist on praise and encourage children's progress in dealing with others. As a result, after a year of persistence, Liu Shuling's children no longer recognize the birth and are more cheerful.

For shy children of this kind, we should pay attention to the treatment of their shyness from psychological factors

In particular, don't talk about children's shortcomings in front of outsiders, such as "the child is shy", "the child is too cowardly", "can't pull out of the circle". Children are suffering from inferiority, or not seeing their own value. They also want to break through themselves, but they have no courage. At this time, parents should not hurt their self-esteem, but encourage them to be brave, overcome their own shortcomings and gradually become cheerful. Introverted children are often sensitive and have strong self-esteem. Therefore, they should not be treated rudely. If children are thrown out to play without guidance, they will suffer losses and become eccentric. Therefore, they must be guided skillfully. When they learn to do these things, their parents had better work with them to make their children benefit from teaching by words and deeds.